Sex and Relationship Education and Therapy for Individuals, Couples online and in-person Brighton
Welcome
to the Sex Ed CLub
SPECIALIST SEX AND RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST AND EDUCATOR
You've Googled it. You've read the article. It's time to actually talk about it.
I'm Nikki, sex therapist, educator, and the person you wish had taught PSHE. I work with individuals and couples on the stuff that's hard to say out loud: mismatched desire, pain, shame, identity, whether you're 24 and figuring it out for the first time, or 54 and figuring it out again.
No judgement, no clinical detachment, no pretending this is easy, just an actual conversation with someone who's spent a career thinking about this properly.
Qualifications
COSRT Registered Sex and Relationship Therapist
CICS Certificate in Counselling skills and practise
ACET Accredited Sex and Relationship Educator
University of Sussex MA Education and Development
Mahi Yoga Center 200hrs Yoga TTC
University of Greenwich PGCE Education
University of Brighton BA Hons Illustration
Are you dissatisfied with your sexlife?
Do you struggle with pain during sex?
Do you and your partner have mismatched desire?
DO you experience Erectile issues?
Are you looking to explore new sexual dynamics or open up for your relationship?
Based in Brighton, I offer couples therapy and sex therapy online and in person. My work is sex-positive, inclusive, and always goal-focused, whether you're looking to repair a relationship, deepen your emotional connection, or both.
Sessions are available online and in-person in Brighton
I have flexible working hours between 9am and 6pm Monday - Friday.
Online
Individual £70 - 50 mins
Individual £105 - 75 mins
Couple £90 - 50 mins
Couple £135 - 75 mins
In-person
Individual £80 - 50 mins
Individual £120 - 75 mins
Couple £100 - 50 mins
Couple £150 - 75 mins
How sex and relationship therapy can help
Any of these feel familiar?
You've found yourselves in the same cycle for so long it's started to feel like just the way things are. The spark that once felt effortless now feels out of reach. Or perhaps life has shifted, children, menopause, a change in health, identity, or simply who you are now and what you want from your sex life has changed.
If so, you're in the right place.
Sex therapy offers something that most of us were never given: a genuine, shame-free space to understand ourselves as sexual beings. For so many people, sex education was at best inadequate and at worst actively harmful, leaving us with very little to draw on when navigating the complexity of a lifetime of sexual self-expression. The gaps it left don't just affect what we know. They shape how we feel about ourselves, our bodies, and our desires.
Within the therapy space, we work together to fill those gaps, not with a prescriptive idea of what your sex life should look like, but with curiosity, honesty, and a deep respect for your own values and desires. This is your space to explore what feels authentic to you, perhaps for the first time.
That process can sometimes be uncomfortable. Talking openly about sex, desire, and vulnerability doesn't always come easily and that's completely understandable. But in my experience, the conversations that feel hardest to start are often the ones that create the most meaningful change.
Whether you're healing from years of disconnection, navigating a shift in your desires, or simply wanting to understand yourself better, sex therapy can help you move from stuck to something that feels genuinely alive again.
You deserve a sex life that feels like yours.
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex therapy is for anyone ready to show up with an open heart and an open mind and that's really the only prerequisite.
It's for individuals and couples of all genders, sexualities, relationship structures, and backgrounds. Whether you're navigating low desire, mismatched libido, painful sex, difficulty with arousal or orgasm, sexual shame, or simply a longing to understand yourself more deeply, this work is for you.
Sex therapy is also for those whose needs have shifted, through menopause, chronic illness, relationship transitions, or changes in identity and who want support in finding a new relationship with their sexuality that feels authentic and affirming.
You don't need to arrive with everything figured out. You just need a willingness to be honest, a curiosity about yourself, and a readiness to explore. The rest we work out together.
My Style
Direct. Warm. Occasionally funny about things nobody's supposed to laugh about.
My approach draws on queer theory, intersectional feminism, and anti-colonial, anti-capitalist thinking, which, in practice, means I don't assume there's one "normal" way to have a body, a relationship, or a sex life, and I won't treat healing like a productivity goal. I also think midlife gets a terrible deal in most sex education, treated like an ending rather than a renegotiation. A lot of my work, teaching, and writing focuses on exactly that: what desire, identity, and intimacy look like when you're no longer 25, and nobody handed you a new script.
You bring the honesty. I bring the framework. Together we figure out what actually works for you, not the version of intimacy you were sold.
I keep my caseload small and deliberate, 10 spaces at a time, because this work isn't something I can do well on a conveyor belt. You deserve a therapist who actually remembers your life between sessions, not one juggling a waitlist so long they've forgotten your name. It also means I'm not incentivised to keep you in therapy longer than you need to be, my job is to be useful, not indispensable.