Pleasure eDUcated
Work with me
1:1 Sex & Relationship coaching
For when things feel stuck, confusing, or frustrating. We’ll explore the tender stuff (desire, shame, intimacy blocks) and the practical stuff (communication, pleasure techniques, relationship tools). Sessions available online or in Brighton.
Small Group Coaching
A mix of community, creativity, and coaching. Join other women in a supportive space where you can share openly, learn, and laugh. (Think: real conversations, not awkward icebreakers.)
Workshops
Interactive sessions blending education with embodiment — from pleasure mapping to intimacy resets. Less theory, more practice (with clothes on).
What the people say
“Nikki is a fantastic facilitator who has worked closely with students at Sussex University to plan and deliver an intimate and inspiring discussion space on how the pervasive power of patriarchy controls and distorts our relationship to sex, to our bodies and to each other. The confidential space Nikki and the students created allowed for truly honest and non-judgemental discussion around issues that are rarely spoken about in public. It was insightful and left attendees with new understandings. I would recommend Nikki for your organisation if you are taking sex education seriously.”
— Well-being lead University of Sussex“Nikki was fantastic, I highly recommend her sessions. She has helped me feel confident in understanding and navigating sexual culture in these changing times. I love how relaxed and open made the session feel like I could ask her anything and no topic was taboo”
— Workshop attendee“Nikki was fantastic, I highly recommend her sessions. She has helped me feel confident in understanding and navigating sexual culture in these changing times. I love how relaxed and open made the session feel like I could ask her anything and no topic was taboo”
— Workshop attendee“My time with Nikki was hugely transformative. I began feeling a lot of shame and confusion around my own sexual identity and struggled to talk about sex. Through Nikki’s empathetic, gentle and open minded approach I gradually unfurled and was able to meet myself with graciousness and patience rather than the frustration and blockage I was feeling prior. I felt very safe sharing my concerns with Nikki and she always reflected and echoed them with professionalism and without judgement. It was very special to be shepherded through this journey by Nikki and I would wholeheartedly recommend her therapy to anyone who might be feeling daunted and stuck. Truly life changing.”
— Former client“To say that I was nervous to begin my work with Nikki is an understatement - I debated speaking with a professional for a good few years before taking the plunge and working with Nikki, and I am so glad that I did. Nikki created a space for me to explore my past, present and future where I felt completely safe, understood and never judged. Nikki really helped me to see how areas of my life that I thought were separate, were very much related, and I always left our sessions feeling lighter. I have come through my work with Nikki a stronger and more resilient person, with coping strategies and frameworks in place to improve not only my romantic relationship, but my relationship with myself. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Nikki to somebody nervous to take that first step towards reclaiming themselves and their sexuality!”
— Former client